Retrograde Musings
This last retrograde came in swinging and left punching, to say the least. Although sis came through like a hurricane and tore sh*t up from the floor to ceiling, I walked away with a renewed sense of self and trusting my intuition, even when it hurts. Aside from retro being a Gatorade, my trip this past weekend reaffirmed me in so many ways and reminded me of the power that abides within.
♠️ Trust YOURSELF. Trust YOUR GUT. Trust YOUR DECISIONS. Even when that shit feels weird, uncomfortable, unnatural… learn to trust yourself and the choices you make. Only two things can happen; you either f*ck up and learn from it or boss up and navigate life differently. Moving differently means different results baby!
♣️ Your gifts will make room for you as long as you are authentic and walking in alignment.
♥️ Us, Black Femmes, deserve to be taken care of. We constantly care for others, but who takes care of us? While standing in line at Zara, I was having a conversation where I realized allowing someone to show up for me and care for me makes me feel so uncomfortable. However, it also feels good knowing that when someone says they got you, they really do. We are deserving of this AS A NORM, NOT A LUXURY. Being loved on, cared for, and catered to should be the normal thing we experience without the trauma of feeling like we're not deserving or good enough. Also, you are deserving without having to suffer at the hands of another. Period!
♦️ Making friends as an adult is hard but being guarded is even harder. Don't miss out on great connections because you're loyal to toxicity. Your circle + attitude will predict your trajectory in life.
🖤 Lastly, go where the love is. Go where being your full and genuine self is encouraged and appreciated.
That's all I got for now. Take what you need. Leave what you don't.
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